FAQ
Questions about family mediation
Short answers to what people ask most often. If yours is not here, call or email Frank.
Is mediation binding?
The mediation itself is not binding. What you agree is written up as a memorandum of understanding. Each of you reviews it with your own lawyer, who can turn it into a signed separation agreement or consent order. That document is binding.
Does the other person have to agree to mediation?
Yes. Mediation is voluntary. Frank can contact the other person to explain the process and invite them, but both of you must agree to take part.
Do I still need a lawyer?
A mediator does not give legal advice. Each person should get independent legal advice, at least before signing a final agreement. Some people consult a lawyer during mediation as well.
How long does mediation take?
It depends on the number of issues and how far apart you are. Some families settle a parenting schedule in one session. A full separation with support and property usually takes several sessions over a few weeks.
How much does family mediation cost?
$250 per hour, usually shared between both people. Block fees for a set number of hours are available. Contact us for block pricing.
Can we mediate by Zoom?
Yes. Sessions are available by Zoom anywhere. In-person sessions are available within 100 km of Hamilton, Ontario.
What if there has been abuse or I feel unsafe?
Frank screens each person privately before mediation starts. If there has been family violence or a serious power imbalance, mediation may not be appropriate, or it may need safeguards such as separate rooms. Your safety comes first. If you are in danger, call 911.
Is what we say confidential?
Mediation is confidential, subject to limits set out in the agreement to mediate, such as a risk of harm to a child or another person, or where the law requires disclosure.
Ready to talk it through?
Call or email Frank to ask a question or book a first session. You can contact him on your own; the other person does not need to call at the same time.